"How Can I Get My Site On The Top In The Search Engines?"

Here is the question

How can I get my site xxxx.com on the top page in search engines? My website does not appear in your (Google's) search engine. It has been submitted several times over the last 3 months.

Here is my reply:

You are going to have to decide what keywords you want associated with your site. In other words what are the keywords that you want associated with your site when people type in search terms?

When you answer that question and you have your chosen keywords in mind then you work on incorporating those keywords within your site.